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That Black Man You See … He’s 12
It seems it was a short time ago that my son was an infant — soft and small — his tiny body easily cradled in my arms. Just last week he...
Jessica Kiragu
Sep 25, 20225 min read


Why Do You Make Everything About Race?
I hear you ask this question a lot. Often, when I take the time and energy to answer it, you’re another white person and our context is...
Jessica Kiragu
Sep 19, 20223 min read


Dear White Elders, I trust You Did Your Best.
Now, please trust that I’m doing my best. Please also recognize that doing my best at teaching my children about race and racism, looks...
Jessica Kiragu
Aug 11, 20226 min read


Talking Race While White
With other white people, I keep finding, it’s really hard. I had an epic discussion with another white person over the weekend. This...
Jessica Kiragu
Aug 1, 20224 min read


What I Mean When I Talk About Whiteness.
What is whiteness? Honestly, it’s hard to pin down. For most of my life as a white person in the U.S., the goal was to not even notice...
Jessica Kiragu
Jul 24, 20223 min read


The Thing You Don’t Talk About … Whiteness
Photo by Kristina Flour on Unsplash I came across this idea at some point while training to be a therapist. It’s the notion that what is...
Jessica Kiragu
Jun 28, 20225 min read


What Does It Mean To Be White?
In all honesty, I’m still figuring it out. The story I have of my first memory of race happened when I was 4 years old. It was Easter and...
Jessica Kiragu
Mar 13, 20225 min read


Can Whiteness Be Good?
“Mommy, your skin is white and you are good to us… and other white people love us too…” Image of the author’s young daughter She looks at...
Jessica Kiragu
Oct 12, 20217 min read


Do White People Talk About Being White?
It’s a real question. And I don’t ask it lightly. Image by Martino Pietropoli on Unsplash When I look back on my life, I realize that...
Jessica Kiragu
Aug 7, 20213 min read
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