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“Nobody Wants To Hear About Whiteness.”
Another white person recently said this to me, a white lady. And by “nobody,” I think what they meant was white folk The person who said...
Jessica Kiragu
Dec 16, 20225 min read


“Her Hair Is Too Curly.”
“Her hair is too curly. The stylist isn’t comfortable cutting it.” The white, straight-haired receptionist said this to my biracial,...
Jessica Kiragu
Dec 14, 20227 min read


I’m A White Person Trying To Be Accountable. But, What Do I Know Of Accountability?
I’m starting to question my grasp of it. I hear a lot of folks saying that white people need to be accountable for addressing racism and...
Jessica Kiragu
Dec 7, 20222 min read


“They're Going To End Racism.”
People like to tell me about my biracial kids. We get all kinds of commentary about them. Often, the things people say are connected to...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 30, 20225 min read


Please Don’t Ask To Touch Her Hair
Particularly, if you’re a strange adult she just met. We’re grown. Can we have a grown people conversation real quick? Please, don’t ask...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 17, 20222 min read


3 Different Cops… 3 Different Days… Same Old Racism
“What are you a brain surgeon?” A white police officer asked my black partner this when we lived in Boston. My husband had just picked me...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 10, 20226 min read


She’s 7 and She Knows About Race and Racism
She’s biracial, bicultural, and she is perceptive. This little girl has seemingly known about race since her birth — ok maybe not that...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 7, 20227 min read


Mothering… It’s a Mother
To mother doesn’t mean you have offspring. Mothering also doesn’t require that one possess eggs and Fallopian tubes. The act of mothering...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 4, 20223 min read


Whiteness Is Overpriced
Whiteness offers a kind of belonging—at least on the surface. It gives me—a white woman in the U.S.—a sense of place, a group to identify...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 2, 20223 min read
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