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Is There A White Doctor On The Plane?
Maybe the flight crew should have asked, “Is there a white doctor on the plane?” Because when my partner—who happens to be a black doctor—stood up to help, they didn’t seem very interested in his assistance. Photo by Sander Sammy on Unsplash We were on an overnight international flight, the kind where everyone’s just trying to get a little sleep. Our baby was finally dozing in my arms, the lights were dim, and we were somewhere high above the Atlantic when the calm broke wi
Jessica Kiragu
Jan 5, 20244 min read


The Real Reason For My White Tears
She was seated across from me, with tears streaming down her face as she recounted her loss. The room was filled with sorrow. She, a...
Jessica Kiragu
Nov 3, 20235 min read


I Don’t Want To White With You Today.
Or any day. In essence, the things I learned to do and view as normal in order to maintain my membership in whiteness, I don’t want to do...
Jessica Kiragu
Oct 20, 20233 min read


"So, I Guess Daddy Is The Only Black Person Here." One 8-Year-Old's Take On Seattle.
We visited Seattle, WA this summer and it was a beautiful. It was our first time exploring the Pacific Northwest. We traveled to meet up...
Jessica Kiragu
Oct 5, 20233 min read


To The White Therapist Who Doesn’t Know How To Talk About Race…
In other words, a note to my younger self. Let me begin by saying that in order to speak about a thing, it’s helpful to first name it. To...
Jessica Kiragu
Sep 29, 20235 min read


Race At A Funeral.
This year, my mom, who is the eldest of eight siblings, lost two of her sisters, my aunts. While attending their funerals, the pervasive...
Jessica Kiragu
Sep 12, 20236 min read


Acid Tongue, Brought To You By Whiteness.
Acid Tongue. That was my nickname in college. But it likely wouldn't have been if I weren't white. Don’t know what I’m talking about?...
Jessica Kiragu
Jul 21, 20234 min read


"What Do You Want Me To Do?"
It has happened again. Have you ever found yourself in this situation? You’re in a conversation with another person or a group of people,...
Jessica Kiragu
Jul 12, 20234 min read


Juneteenth. It’s Not About Being Woke.
I understand that Juneteenth has already passed, and I wrote about it earlier this month. However, I bring it up again this week because...
Jessica Kiragu
Jun 27, 20234 min read
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