My white friends, I need to be honest about something—whiteness is trying to ruin my life. I think it might be trying to ruin yours too....

Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash A new year has me thinking about beginnings. Namely, the start of how I came to examine whiteness (I wasn’t always interested in what it means to be white) and the early days of this blog (I never imagined myself a writer). It was through relationships, varied experiences and circumstances that I began to notice there was something big I was missing. Ever get to a place where you realize just how little you know about something? Like, this th